The closing verses of John chapter 2 and the subsequent meeting between Nicodemus and Jesus in chapter 3 present a fascinating contrast. At the end of chapter 2, we’re told Jesus did not commit Himself to those who believed in Him simply because they saw His miracles. This skepticism highlights a superficial faith based solely on the miraculous. Enter Nicodemus, a figure who seeks Jesus not for the miracles but for a deeper understanding. His sincere approach results in receiving the knowledge of the ultimate miracle: rebirth through water and spirit. This distinction underscores a critical lesson: true faith extends beyond the desire for signs and wonders, reaching into a genuine quest to know and understand Christ.

Approaching Christ for the wrong reasons—such as seeking miracles or personal gain—can lead to a shallow and unfulfilling spiritual experience. Examples abound in scripture and in life where this superficial pursuit results in disappointment, and even in Jesus withdrawing His presence, as He knew the hearts of those who followed Him for His miracles. Such an approach misses the essence of a relationship with Christ, focusing on what He can do for us rather than who He is.

In contrast, developing a relationship with Christ based on who He truly is—understanding His teachings, embracing His love, and following His example—is the cornerstone of a true and fulfilling faith. Just as in any meaningful relationship, knowing and appreciating the person, not just what they can offer, deepens the connection and fosters growth. This is the heart of true discipleship: seeking Jesus for His presence, His guidance, and His love, rather than merely for the benefits we might derive from Him.

True faith in Christ means seeking Him for Himself, valuing the relationship above all else. This sincere approach leads to a life transformed by His love and guided by His spirit. It’s a journey of continuous learning, growing, and becoming more like Him each day. By focusing on Christ, we build a faith that is resilient, enduring, and deeply fulfilling.

Let us strive to approach and embrace Christ with the honesty and sincerity of Nicodemus, seeking not just His hands but His face and His presence. Let’s pursue a relationship with Christ that goes beyond the desire for miracles, to a deeper understanding and appreciation of who He is. This is the path to true spiritual maturity, where our lives reflect the profound impact of a genuine connection with our Lord.